Day 11 of simplifying my life – Addictions

I had a conversation a while ago with a friend regarding coffee. For those who know me, I think coffee is the elixir of life! I love it & drink it everyday. In fact, I even have an espresso machine at home! Anyway, we were chatting & he shared that he has never drank coffee before. I was shocked! He went on to say that he deliberately stays away from coffee so he has this mini claim to fame of never ever drinking coffee. He went on to comment that I’m addicted to coffee. Obviously I brushed him off πŸ˜›

For some reason, that conversation stuck in my brain. I realized that I am drinking 4 cups of regular size espresso coffee everyday. Yes you read that right. Every day. I also realized that I have a coffee addiction. So I decided to quit cold turkey. A few days after I quit, I got struck by this illness from hell which took me 3 weeks to recover. Nonetheless I’m pretty sure that 30% of my illness misery was due to the caffeine withdrawals I was having from quitting coffee.

I’m happy to report that counting today, I’m 35 days free from coffee.

What addictions in your life are you not realizing? Maybe it’s time to take a look and do something about it. πŸ™‚

Day 10 of simplifying my life – Sharing your wish to simplify

I told my Dad about my mission this month to simplify my life. I started sharing about how I intend to purge half of my books. I have 132 books on my book shelf now and my target is to pare down to 50-60 by 2012. Apparently that’s inspiring him to pare down his collection of more than 1000 books! πŸ™‚ See where I got my love of reading? πŸ™‚

My question is, have you shared your wish to simplify with someone in your life?

Day 8 of simplifying my life – Decluttering = Wasteful?

Big opps! I published the wrong post! πŸ˜€ Here is today’s post! πŸ˜€

 

I was talking to someone the other day about my goal to simplify my life and one of the things she mentioned was how wasteful she thinks decluttering is. “You’re getting rid of stuff that you paid good money for!!!” she exclaimed. That was an ‘Ah ha!’ moment for me. I didn’t realize that I had been holding onto some of my stuff just because of this reason.

I pondered and reflected upon this as this was a conundrum for me. Then I realized, the waste was when you bought the item (something that you didn’t really need). It’s not when you are getting rid of it!

Below are the insights I got and perhaps they will help you πŸ™‚

  • Learn your lesson. Realize that you shouldn’t have purchased those stuff in the first place. Avoid doing this in the future by buying as little as you possibly can.
  • Realize that keeping the items is wasteful. If you keep stuff you don’t need, it costs you money in terms of storage (you buy stuff to store the items aka container store). You pay to maintain it by using your valuable time to clean it, to walk around the *coughs* obstacle. This is so true for me — trying to find something that you know you have but don’t know where it is? You have to literally go through stuff that you think it might be amongst. All these are your time (therefore money) and energy that’s wasted!
  • Someone else will use it. Realize that donating the item means that someone else will be getting good use out of it. The item that is just clutter or excess in your home could be someone else’s treasure! So set your item free and feel good that you are helping the charities that you donate to (Goodwill, Salvation Army, etc)
  • Box it up. For your items that you’re unsure about and is a maybe, box it up and stick a date that is 3-6 months (depends on how fast you want to pare down) down the road. Then seal the box with tape. When the date is up, just take the box down to Goodwill, Salvation Army, etc. If you didn’t need anything from the box in the 3-6 months that it’s been boxed up, you probably don’t need it. Exception: Seasonal items.
  • Don’t let your possessions own you. If you are holding onto stuff because you feel you have to. Your stuff is owning you instead of vice versa. Let go of your stuff and be free.

Once you managed to clear your home of clutter, you can kick back and relax. Sip a cup of tea and enjoy the space you have that’s filled with things that bring you joy and happiness. Good luck!

Day 7 of simplifying my life – Monitor Your Impulse Spending Urges

Did you notice the new layout? πŸ˜€ I figured that in line with simplifying my life, I’m going to simplify the look of the blog as well. Hopefully you will like it as much as I do πŸ™‚

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If you are like me, then you know how easy it is to impulse buy. Especially since we live in a time of instant gratification. See this? Like it? Buy it! I admit that I have a problem with impulse buying and here are some tips that could hopefully help you too!

The first step is to admit you have a problem. Not to sound like AA but it’s true! Once you admit that this is a problem, you can take steps to do something about it.

The next step is to monitor your urges. Get one of those small notebooks (you definitely have one lying around the house/apt). If you’re one of those who loves technology, use your smartphone, ipad for this. Keep the notebook handy by your computer, in your bag when you go out. Every time you get an urge to buy something, practical or not, write it down in your notebook. Write down every single urge whether it is when you’re at the store, browsing online, looking at a catalog, talking to your friends.

It doesn’t matter if you eventually buy the item or not. Just write down each urge as it happens.

I like to write them down and review them at the end of a day or sometimes a week to see what urges I have been having. It’s truly enlightening. If you want to take it a step further, write down the location beside the item. This will help you identity what is causing those urges. Urge for M&Ms at the grocery store? Next time, you’ll know to avoid the candy aisle. πŸ™‚

The rest are probably tips you know already but hey, it works!

  • Avoid the mall, other shopping areas & shopping sites (online). Just going there greatly increases the chance that you will buy something on impulse. Do something else. Go running, hang out with friends, get a book from the library, or just chill at home with a cup of tea πŸ˜€
  • When you go shopping, go with a list and stick to the list. Anything that is not on the list doesn’t get purchased!
  • Keep a 30-day list. When you truly truly want something, write it on your 30 day list (with the date on it). If at the end of 30 days and you still want it, go ahead and get it. This is contingent on the fact that you do have the disposable income to get the item and not go into debt for it. If you don’t have the money for it now, save for it! After putting it on the list and waiting 30 days, you might realize that you don’t want it that badly after all. Plus remember, you have to toss 2 things for every 1 thing you bring into the apt/house (this rule applies to me).
  • Are your friends shoppers? Find some activities to do with them instead of shopping. Shopping with fellow shoppers often ends up in an enabling game where you end up encouraging each other to buy something. Instead, do something else. Host a potluck dinner. Go for a picnic. Organize a running club where you meet up, run once a week together and have breakfast after.

I hope these tips will help you and I can’t wait to hear your tips and advice on how to curb your spending urges!

Adios~

Chanel Lumiere Platine 2000 Platinum Highlighter

Once upon a time, Chanel made this divine highlighter called Lumiere Platine or otherwise known as Platinum. It looks exactly like the Chanel Joues Contraste blushes except it is all silver within. I guess it was to pay homage to the new millenium as it was released in 2000.

Doesn’t it look simply amazing?!

Here are some swatches (2 swipes of powder with blush brush)

As you can see, it comes up as a delicate shimmer that looks only glittery when the sun strikes it just right πŸ˜€

Do I use this much? Frankly I have never touched it except to swatch this πŸ˜€ I love my highlighter to be more shimmery. Nonetheless I think this is really gorgeous and would definitely appeal to the collectors πŸ™‚

*** Purchased by me

Day 6 of simplifying my life: 9 quick tips to identify clutter

*waves hi* How is everyone doing this fine morning? πŸ™‚ One of the things I had been doing is savoring that cup of tea in the morning in my favourite mug.

I’m almost 1 month coffee free but that’s for another post πŸ™‚

Today I am presenting 9 quick tips to identify clutter. Some clutter are easy to identity. Now others, not so much. I take no credit for these 9 tips as I got them from Gretchen at her blog, The Happiness Project. I think they’re really useful so I am presenting them here as well! πŸ™‚

This is her post verbatim πŸ™‚ I hope it helps you as much as it did for me.

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Lately, I’ve been on a clutter-clearing frenzy. For me, as for most people, outer order contributes to inner calm, and sweeping away a bunch of unloved, unused stuff has given me a huge happiness boost.

As I sifted through our possessions, I identified nine questions to ask myself when I was confronted with a questionable object. This list helped me decide what to keep and what to toss, recycle, or give away.

1) Does this thing work? I was surprised by how hard it was to admit that something was broken and couldn’t be fixedβ€”say, our dud toaster or my daughter’s frog clock. Why was I hanging on to these things?

2) Would I replace it if it were broken or lost? If not, I must not really need it.

3) Does it seem potentially usefulβ€”but never actually gets used? Something like an oversized water-bottle, a corkscrew with an exotic mechanism, or a tiny vase. Or duplicates. How many spare glass jars did I need to keep on hand?

4) Was I β€œsaving” it? Leaving bath gel in the tube, or hoarding my favorite stationery in a desk drawer, was as wasteful as never using these things. Spend out!

5) Does it serve its purpose well? For example, we have a lot of β€œcute” kitchen objects that don’t really work.

6) Has it been replaced by a better model? Inexplicably, I’m in the habit of keeping a broken or outmoded version of tech gadgets, even after they’ve been replaced. Pointless.

7) Is it nicely put away in an out-of-the-way place? One of my Secrets of Adulthood is: Just because things are nicely organized doesn’t mean they’re not clutter. No matter how tidily a thing is stored, if I never use it, why keep it?

8) Does this memento actually prompt any memories? Sometimes I automatically keep things that fall into the category of β€œmementos,” assuming that they’d set off some sort of response, but they don’t. The attendance trophy from my daughter’s pre-school sports classβ€”out.

9) Have I ever used this thing? I was absolutely shocked to find, when I started looking, how many things we owned that we had never once used. Many were gifts, true, but I promised myself we’d either put these things into use within a few weeks or give them away.

How about you? Have you identified any questions that help you decide whether or not to keep a particular possession?

Day 5 of simplifying my life

I got to admit. This 1 item out per day is harder than you’ll think! I had been purging my makeup stash and will be gearing up for a blog sale in the next few days. I wonder if that is considered as my 1 item per day? πŸ™‚ I felt that was kind of cheating since I haven’t sold the items yet so I ended up purging 2 more books. At this rate, I’m almost out of books that I can purge! Will need to work on other aspects of my life which honestly is the purpose of the 1 item out per day.

Also I had been enjoying many of the posts on this minimalist blog called zenhabits. You can access this here. Hopefully it will inspire you as much as it inspired me! πŸ™‚

Project 5 Pan updates

I finished a skincare product today!

It’s Silk Naturals Super Defense Serum. Silk Naturals products are highly recommended by the skin board on makeupalley. I bought a bunch of their products & I admit that I like their serums best. This serum is nice but I didn’t see any significant changes in my skin after using it. Furthermore, when the serum got older, it started getting a slight funky smell. Nonetheless I used it all as I wanted to add it to my P5P! πŸ˜€

Would I buy it again? Probably not as I really didn’t think it made a significant change to my skin.

Also I used up 5 of the sample packets that I have. However I started breaking out a little which concerned me. I don’t know which caused it as I was using sample packets of toner, cleanser & primer. I might lay off the skincare samples for now as my skin is kinda finicky.

*** Silk Naturals Super Defense Serum was purchased by me. No affiliation to any company.